Children Learn What They Live - So Can We
by Dorothy Law Nolts
When we come together to conduct our meetings, to assist at our fundraising functions, to honor those who have attained degrees, to welcome new members, or simply to enjoy the benefits of membership, we sometimes forget that our thoughts, words, and actions touch and influence the thoughts, words, and actions of others. We sometimes forget that what we say or do, or don't do, also affects the lives of the children in our care.
The Mooseheart staff is very much aware of how one thought, one word, or one action affects the life of a child. We, as adults, can also learn that we can be affected in the same way. For instance, here are facts that we must understand about children and, in fact, may also apply to adults:
If Children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to be shy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn to be patient.
If children live with praise, they learn to appreciate.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and others
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.
Co-workers, if we apply ourselves to our interactions with other members, attendance and participation at our meetings and our functions will surely increase. And, with that increase, our chapters will enjoy membership growth and financial success.